Sun Dried Sparrows
It's all over the place
Saturday, 30 July 2022
Under pressure
Thursday, 30 June 2022
A matter of death and life (part two - life!)
I must say there is nothing quite like the comfort of a good hotel bed. (Where do they get their pillows? So perfectly plump and firm!) The kind of bed where you should be able to slip under the fresh clean duvet, fall asleep instantly and have glorious dreams for the next eight hours…. But I didn’t. I lay awake for ages. So many thoughts, images, feelings were jostling for attention in my brain, refusing to form an orderly queue or to go away and come back in the morning. And this was only the first night!
Earlier that day I’d boarded a sleek, new (and very
exotic sounding) Azuma train and travelled 400 miles northward. Having not been on a train these last two
years the experience felt strangely new again.
I mean, even a visit to the onboard space age circular loo seemed a
glamorous excursion. All silver and symbols and sensory controls, I
half expected to see the lovely Lieutenant Uhura waiting outside when I emerged.
But the views from the train window were most definitely earthly and I loved the way the landscape changed from the flatlands of home to… ooh, hills! And rocky outcrops! Towns and cities I’ve never visited teased me with momentary flashes of their most striking assets. The bridges spanning the Tyne… Peterborough and Durham Cathedrals piercing the skyline…York Minster too. Quirkier things as well, the curious ‘Mallard’ sign…
And I’m pretty sure I let out an audible gasp at my first sight of the sea which, in spite of it being named the ‘East Coast Main Line’, still somehow took me by surprise. It was like that feeling I had as a child en route to a seaside holiday, the excitement at turning a corner and suddenly seeing what seemed like a magical ocean at the edge of the world. I know, I’m romanticising, it was a rather chilly looking steel-grey North Sea. But still…
Eight hours after leaving home that morning, I was
disembarking at Edinburgh Waverley Station – amazingly my very first trip over
the border into Scotland - to be greeted by our lovely blog pal, Alyson. It was
great to see her familiar face; we had met up just once before in London and
felt then as if we’d known each other for ages.
And that’s the beautiful thing about blogging, the way strangers can
connect, get a sense of understanding and camaraderie, just through what we
express, and how… but more on that later. As if I hadn’t been excited
enough by the journey, there was so much yet to come – a few more people to
meet, some for the first time, others to reconnect with, places to see, music to hear (not just the bagpipes on the
Royal Mile which take busking to a whole new level), tales to be shared, drinks
to be consumed – naturally - and hugs (hugs at last!) to be had…
A long-awaited bloggers’ ‘mini-meet’ had finally, appropriately, come together
in this beautiful city. No wonder I didn’t sleep very well that night... my senses were most definitely working overtime.
More in part three.
Monday, 20 June 2022
A matter of death and life (part one)
What a week it’s been…
The phone call from the hospital came last Sunday afternoon
and we knew that a long and difficult saga was drawing to a close. My dear old mum-in-law’s health had been
deteriorating both mentally and physically for the last couple of years, so it
wasn’t unexpected. We saw her for the
final time on Sunday evening, short of breath and unresponsive, but there
was a peacefulness about her too and I like to think she was still somehow aware
of the familiar voices and comforting touch, and perhaps they helped her to just
let go. Still, feisty to the last, she hung on for one more night and then finally went on Monday
afternoon.
Well, my mum-in-law has made an appearance on this blog before and now seems a good time to remind myself of that. I mean, she was the mother of an anarcho-punk guitarist with an occasional penchant for black nail varnish, whose girlfriend used to turn up at their home from the bus in a pink velvet jacket and leopard spot trousers… she was bound to pick up on some rock’n’roll trivia! Proof came many years later, when she was in her 80s, and Mr SDS spotted her filling in a crossword puzzle with the letters: M O T O R H E A D . The clue was simply ‘Lemmy’s rock band’…
We naturally started to harbour secret suspicions that, tucked away amid the kitten ornaments and well-thumbed copies of the TV Times, there might be a copy of ‘No Sleep ‘Til Hammersmith’. Not only that we thought but, perhaps carefully disguised within a Tom Jones album cover, there would also be an original issue of ‘Piper At The Gates Of Dawn’, after we noticed this completed puzzle page:
(It's not very clear but the box on the right has the clue ‘Pink Floyd founder,
____ Barrett’)
Anyway, here’s to my mum-in-law Eileen, who lived a long and happy life in the same little village where she’d spent her childhood. She loved her crosswords and her fish’n’chips, and was so generous with the bulging bags of crisps, chocolates and biscuits that she gave us every Christmas that we probably still have a few packets of Jammy Dodgers and onion rings left in the back of the cupboard from 2006… I fondly remember the early days of getting to know her when she’d feed us with Findus Crispy Pancakes (the cheesy ones) and the best home-made date cake I’ve ever tasted. RIP Eileen.
Unfortunately, therefore, it wasn’t the best timing that the morning after she died I was due to be travelling 400 miles and staying away in Edinburgh until the Friday, but it was for a brief yet exciting adventure that had been 2 years in the waiting, and Mr SDS wouldn’t have wanted me to miss it. It felt strange to leave him home alone at such a time, but at least we could communicate by phone and it was only for a few days. And what a few days! From thinking and talking so much about death at that moment, I was lucky enough to go off for a fantastic new experience in the loveliest of company (which you may soon, if not already, be reading about elsewhere) and it was at the opposite end of the spectrum: positively life-affirming.
More on that in part two!
In the meantime, what’s it gonna
be? Motörhead or Tom Jones? Oh, go on, let’s have a bit of both…
Motörhead: Live To Win (1980)
Saturday, 4 June 2022
Connected and more
Oh god, I had forgotten how good it could feel. It’s been a while!
But last night, after a couple of years without any, the visceral
and emotional pleasure of experiencing live music again felt even more special
than I’d expected. It was positively
life-affirming. And it was practically
in my back garden!
Ah, what a lovely evening. Against a clear blue sky the sun slowly descended into a
horizon studded with ancient trees and an elegant church spire; on the other side
of the gently sloping field the turrets of the stately home hosting the event glowed
in vivid pink illumination. It’s an
absolutely beautiful setting for a tiny music festival and incredibly for me it’s only a two minute saunter from my front door (a crow could fly there in a few seconds). I could hear the bands sound-checking through the kitchen window earlier.
But to be there, in amongst it – it’s that thing, isn’t it,
of sharing the joy, the atmosphere, the whatever-it-is that live music gives you
which is hard to describe – with your fellow human beings, hence my use of the term life-affirming. With no pressure on us and a couple of tickets bought ages ago, my friend and I wandered down for our
prescription of festival elixir just in time to catch the
three bands we were most keen to see.
This being a very small, inexpensive event, it tends to host artists who’ve
been around a while (or who’ve gone away and come back), you know the kind of
thing. But no prejudice on my part, I’ve
been around a while too…
So, all power to Stereo MCs, Electric Six and Ash. I loved them all. And I got a strange kind of pride and sense of connection
that they were playing in my home village and were so well received – it felt
kinda personal. It was perhaps especially heart-warming too that the festival could go ahead again and had quickly sold out, having been postponed for the last couple of years. Plus there was no mention of that other thing that's apparently going on this weekend... what a delightful, hedonistic bubble.
All three bands completely delivered – Stereo MCs just made you
want to dance and smile and celebrate, the sun warming your face, high on
energy and life, timeless. Electric Six
were slightly, wonderfully mad, as you might expect – especially eccentric frontman Dick Valentine with
his introductions (“Song No. 1” , “Song No. 2”, etc.) And Ash
– well, I’ve loved Ash for a long time but had never seen them play – and here they were celebrating
30 years since their first rehearsal in June 1992 when they were 15 years old, and
now on stage with a little entourage of young offspring at the side – that alone is enough to make you smile isn’t
it? They were superb, tight as fuck, with
a well-chosen setlist highlighting both characteristic pop melodies and those harder
choppy guitars. I have long wanted to hear Girl From Mars
under the stars… Ohh, at last.
So yeah, I had forgotten how good it could feel; what a difference it makes to your well-being to be entertained by proper talent and immersed in vibrant, live music with your fellow humans, not to take it for granted either. I’m a little loved-up, to say the least.
Thursday, 26 May 2022
This is the age of science and technology
Ask me about the reproductive cycle of the earthworm and I’m your woman; engage me in conversation about obscure 1960s British psychedelia and my eyes will light up. But talk to me about technology and I want to run to the hills and hide in a treehouse where the only signals I can receive are from the birds and the butterflies… that’s ok, I speak their language. The other stuff, the bytes and the apps and the nano SIMS, just aren’t my bag.
And it’s hard to be like this, don’t you think? It’s an easy,
lazy excuse to say it’s just an age thing, as I don’t believe it is. My dad, for instance, has always been very technologically
minded; he keeps up-to-date and understands it all, no problem - he’s 93. But I never have been, I’m just not wired that
way. My brain seems to effortlessly absorb facts
about the mating rituals of snails and tells my hand how to draw (on paper) every day, but
goes into panic mode when faced with questions about synching data and sharing
app contents via NFC or whatever it is. Is it so wrong to feel like that, is it
so strange? I feel quite out of step thanks to the way my mind works much of the time. I can look out of a window for hours and not tire of it for one second, but with only a phone in
front of me to scroll through I would be bored in no time. I honestly don’t know how people manage it.
As a result, I’m an
avoider, and hence instead of doing things incrementally I’m now having to make (what feels like) a massive
leap from a 9 year old phone which started playing up last week to something
far more sophisticated than I deserve. I
got butterflies thinking about it, I could feel the stress levels rise, a sense
of resistance – it’s ridiculous, I know.
There’s only one thing for it - I
must find a way to make it exciting…
To paraphrase Maya Angelou, "... if you can't change it, change your attitude". I’m getting there. It's shiny! It’s a gorgeous, sumptuous shade of red! I mean, yes, it is aesthetically pleasing, I must admit. And… it performs magic! Ooh, plus I’ve bought a snappy leather case for it too. Whoo hoo! All I have to do (when my network upgrade finally gets activated…therein lies another tale) is to switch it on. And just hope that somehow, in some small way, it will switch me on too.
Here's 'Reality Poem', with its line that I borrowed for the title of this post, by Linton Kwesi Johnson, from the superb 'Forces of Victory' album which, quite shockingly, is now 43 years old.
Friday, 29 April 2022
Jackdaw days
He was free to come and go, I didn't want him to feel trapped or unable to wander wherever his natural instincts took him. So sometimes he slipped through the gate and took a walk down the path behind the cottages to who knows where, and I wondered if I'd ever see him again, but then I'd look out later and, ah - there he was. He never went for long.
Strikingly pale eyes. Satin blue black back, smoky grey head. An adult jackdaw in the garden - nothing that unusual perhaps but, unfortunately, in spite of no signs of injured wings or legs, this one was unable to fly and he'd been quietly taking refuge here for two weeks.
I know I shouldn't let myself become so emotionally invested but I seem to be wired that way... worrying about cats and sparrowhawks and foxes getting to him, worrying that he'd starve, so I did my best to provide food and water and not to spook him when I was outside. There were places for him to hide and shelter, and he seemed to be doing ok given his fundamental weakness. He was too shy, and too fast on those two legs, to attempt catching for 'rehab' purposes - besides, I didn't want either of us to go through the trauma of trying. So my wish was that eventually he'd find the energy to stretch those shiny wings and take off to the treetops and chimney pots, and to be as free as a.... well, of course. Just as a jackdaw should be. In the meantime I knew he was vulnerable and prepared myself for a less happy outcome - but at least I'd know I tried my best.
All these thoughts of jackdaws had me searching for an appropriate song... and I was pleasantly surprised to find one. It also happens to be from an artist who has been much lauded over at Brian's place and his name is Martin Newell.
Our lovely blogging pal Brian over in Seattle is so much more familiar with Martin Newell's output than I'll ever be, so I really recommend reading up about him and having a listen to some tracks there. But I first came across the man as the vocalist with the band Gypp, a fairly local outfit who used to play various haunts in East Anglia in around '78/'79 including the one I frequented as a young teenager. I just have a memory of a skinny, very English and rather eccentric wild-haired guy in a hat and I think probably very little has changed in the interim and, although I don't remember much about how Gypp sounded at the time, listening to some of Martin's much later songs I can hear '60s influences, shades of Robyn Hitchcock and The Dukes Of Stratosphear. I was also interested to read about him and his later band The Cleaners From Venus (what a name) in the wonderful and highly recommended book 'Lost In Music' by Giles Smith (it's about time I read that again I think, and if you haven't, then why not?!) Blogger won't let me insert a youtube version of the Cleaners From Venus song I have in mind here - 'Jackdaw Days' - but I found it on the Bandcamp page so here's a link:
The Cleaners From Venus: Jackdaw Days
Sadly the jackdaw died this morning, but it was peacefully in the undergrowth, thankfully not savaged by a cat or sparrowhawk or fox. His last two weeks in the garden were hopefully pretty chilled with food, water, shelter, lots of bird company and this peculiar woman looking out for him. Inspecting him more closely as I went to put him in the ground today, I started to wonder if he simply died of old age.
Sunday, 3 April 2022
Daylight robbery
I don’t know whether we look more like ageing beatnik chicks or Mafia wives, all of us dressed in black and with chic boots and dark glasses. One friend wearing a smartly tailored coat, the other with her nails immaculately polished, me with crimson painted lips. We make our way to an old building at the end of town - coincidentally the same place we’d convened many times long ago - in fact, over forty years back. It was once the venue where, with wide-eyed adolescent adulation, we'd watched Siouxsie & The Banshees perform before they’d even got a record deal and where we’d seen Adam & The Antz many months prior to the release of ‘Dirk Wears White Sox’ (oh, how to make yourself feel ancient!) Also where the Newtown Neurotics and Crass became our local heroes. I could go on. But it's certainly a building full of ghosts from our past, and I half expect to see a gaggle of punks around each corner and to delve into my handbag for Polos to hide the smell of forbidden cigarettes from my parents. Ah, there are parts of me which would go back to that time in a heartbeat; I’d skip the teenage angst and the school night curfews, but…yes, the gigs!
Anyway, here we are at our old stomping ground (no longer that music venue and arts centre), three women
in our late fifties, about to embark on something completely new. That’s one of the things about getting older,
isn’t it? That there are fewer and fewer
‘first times’. But this experience is still
uncharted territory; it’s definitely the first time any of us has robbed a
bank…
An hour later, as orange lights flash and alarms sound
around us, we are sitting in the back of a transit van, leaving behind us a
trail of gold bars, magnetic keys, bank cards and a gun. Oops, did I say gun? I do of course mean a grabber stick. We’ve ordered a pizza for a security guard
and laced it with laxative so that he’s waylaid in the loo. We’ve hidden in cupboards, hacked a computer
and fiddled with frustrating padlocks.
There was that moment when each of us tried to turn one of those number
locks by torchlight, on the underside of a table it was, too - but the glare was too much for
our glasses…that’s the problem with varifocals, I find. I must bear that in mind should I ever want to pull off another heist. Still, in spite of that somehow we’re not quite
yet too old for this malarkey, because it’s undoubtedly one of the daftest,
silliest things I’ve done in a long while and the laughter along with our
bank-robbing ineptitude will remain with me for some time.
Of course no security guard was harmed in the process and
the gold bullion was made of wood, but as far as those ‘first times’ go, my first ‘Escape
Room’ experience was a good one...